I’m okay talking about it here. As you all know I have custody or guardianship of my grandchildren. Their father remains incarcerated and well their mother remains unwilling to be a parent. Always a million excuses to avoid being a mother to her two beautiful children and as time has gone on, they have not really bonded with her. She comes around only to run off to be with biker friends she knows here in Vegas, we never know where she lives, she provides no information. When she is around she prepares no meal, she does not bath, she does not do hair, she does not look at their binders to see how well the are doing, and no matter how much I ask her to stay here with and be with her children she has refused.
Well about a month or so ago her still husband as she has refused to divorce him and we all wondered why, well he now wants that divorce as he has met someone else. He told her and she lost it. It’s gone from one extreme to the other ranging from wanting to cut him and his family off from the kids, to hating white people because she thought the new woman is white. None of us know for sure but we don’t need to. So, what if she’s white, as long as he’s out of her hair that should be all she cares about. Unfortunately, it was not and she’s been in a downward spiral every since he said he wants the divorce so he can move on with is life. She’s been out in several different relationships but she’s losing her mind because has moved on as well. It is not clear she thought he would get out, still want her, they would get come tag team me, get the kids, and go run off into the sunset.
Its now time for her to lose it on me, I’m the bad guy because she now wants her kids, no stable place to stay, no job because she quit, and insisting she can still get unemployment. Whatever, I told her go to court and if the judge gives you your kids okay. She lost her mind forcing me to cut her off. That’s what’s happening these week, Next week it will be something or someone else she lashes out at but for now it’s me and I’m damn sick of it at this point.
