Congrats new parents!!! Man do I understand what Barb spoke about. I was encouraged to do exactly that which was how I ended up married to the Judge. I grew to love him but I denied my homosexuality and I was miserable. I also lived in his shadow and I had to suppress my butch like nature most of my life. I guess all of you can see the real me now and I appreciate you all accept who I have always been inside. I have to tell you, I feel better than I’ve felt my whole life. There is nothing better than being who you are, nothing. My life is finally complete. I am marrying a woman I love and I mean I love her. She’s all I’ve ever wanted and I no longer feel I have to smoother Karen in order to fit into society in a capacity that is acceptable. Praise the Most High I am free!!!