I am so excited that I’m about to be a new mom. I love Doug so much and for his precious daughter to give us the opportunity to have a child of our own is amazing. Thank you Em you are truly special.
I grew up in a house where fake was normal. I was not encouraged to be true to myself, I was encouraged to be superficial, shallow, and vain. This is what my mother taught me. To be a gold-digger. There was no such thing as marrying for love, you married for financial security and I watched her cater to my father’s every whim just so she could live a financial comfortable life. Often the question of how women can stay married to these sorry republican men in congress today, this is how. They are raised to believe the only thing that matters in life is being financially secure. It doesn’t matter if you have a bad husband as long as he’s wealthy or at least well off. Believe it or not, many of people in my crowd were like this. Rod and I married because it was expected, encouraged we did not love each other that is why I’m so glad he’s happy now, and I am as well. We had three lovely children so in the end it was worth it but it’s nice we both found the love I think we both deserve. I like being a better person, fake people aren’t good people. They are excessive by nature, bad parents, selfish, and liars. They have to lie to protect the masks they wear all the time. I didn’t have my mother’s life, thank God. She did things for my father and put up with things I couldn’t imagine putting up with from anyone. I sometimes felt sorry for her but she always made it clear she had the life she wanted, I learned all the things I didn’t want to be as an adult and I’m glad I am now encouraged to be who I truly am.