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Mark
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First: Hmmm, don’t hate. I’m gorgeous and I know it. I look at myself and nod, that’s one flawless dude, that’s what I tell myself when I look in the mirror. .
Second: I hope so Ebony, I heard that as well and I smiled. This is the kind of help we need to be giving. I can afford to do that for 16 women a year on my own and it wouldn’t hurt me. If all the wealthy people in this country selected a number and went about finding people who really need help, would really appreciate their help, who really deserve their help, and help it would make a incredible difference in this country.
Third: Kelton, I agree with my sister. Once a person has shown you a side of them that is disturbing it is up to us to be careful how we deal with them going forward. Unlike Niobi’s father, she turned on someone she was suppose to love in a very cold way. There is never an excuse for that, never. No one should make you treat another that way, no one and nothing. Not someone you love for crying out loud.
Now, folks I’m a JR kind of man but when I was attacked, I know how Jackee felt. I couldn’t keep him off me and although I would have died fighting, I was glad as hell when Rod and my dad showed up. Dad always knew when he was needed and where he was needed most. He did this because he paid attention and when he first grabbed me I knew I was in for a fight. My mind screamed for my father and I heard him tell me he was on his way. I heard him. Although it was only a few minutes it felt like an eternity.
I am not as strong in character as my father was, I have moments when I lean on Luke, when I lean on Mason, I have moment when I lean on my wife. I don’t stand alone. I lean on Jay, Justin, Mike, Nico, Jess I lean on people and all of you keep me strong. We stand together and together we are strong. Jay is brave in a way that defies natural comprehension. He will stand up and for anyone at any time, before any one. I mean Jay is fearless. I’m not kidding. Carmine is as well and I find them fascinating. Jay has fierce eyes that shoot daggers at you when he’s angry. Carmine’s just get chilling. I mean, it’s not hard to read them because their none verbal ways of communicating are very affective. I’m a little shocked about the judge because I can see how he almost snuffed out Karen’s light. I see a new person now that she is free. She talks, she laughs, she looks free. We most be careful not to make those we love feel like they are in prison.
I knew Ben was a killer, he disturbed my soul and I had asked him not to return to the group. I told him I believed he was responsible for what happened to Rebecca long before he admitted he was responsible. I told him I believed he was responsible for the death of other women. He didn’t even try to put on the act he put on for his brother. He just nodded and told me I should be worried. I told him I wasn’t and he knew why. I heard Ashley when he first got started on her and I had to send Luke because I was so far away. Luke and Justin went in my behalf, saving Ashley’s life and I regret we were unable to save Rebecca.
Rebecca did not scare me I could see through her most of the time. She was always very real and honest with me. She was troubled, having some mental disorders that made her combative and a little unbalanced most of the time. She did need help early in life and Karen should have been heard and her concerns addressed. Jim stole her only child from her denying her the mental health attention she so desperately needed. It is tragic all around. His refusal to see what was right in front of him, was very costly to his wife. I feel her pain and it runs deep.
I think dangerous people show themselves to be a danger to particular people, not all will sense a person is dangerous. Many had no idea Ben was as dangerous as he actually was. I did not see how dangerous Rebecca actually was. I know she scared me to death when she almost took Justin’s life. She was getting worse, but at this point it was to late to help her. Jess tried. Rod tried. Karen is right…she needed help when she was young.
The message folks…pay attention to the world around you and be aware. Pay attention to your love ones, the ones closest to you. Love them enough to care about how they feel, show them their feelings matter and you’re in this together. Listen to your children because they are people, little people. How they feel matters. Show them it does. If you are drinking daily, you’re drinking to much. A beer a day is a beer to much. A glass of wine a day is too much. We have to notice when we are being excessive and get these behaviors under control. Some things are done socially and in moderation. If it alters your personality is should never be done excessively. Self-control and responsibility.
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