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TOPIC: The Truth

The Truth 6 years 2 months ago #2368

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Mark…I have to agree with you. Mike you too. just when you think all the bad stories about Benji and Deb’s mom are over here come more. I hope you two young people will finally get some closure. Are both your brothers gone? Hang in there and give you dad a chance. It sounds like you’re talking to him Benji.

Honey, I know that peace. With Becca we were always waiting for the next axe to fall. And it always fell. We do know peace now and I have to say that was my worst experience with devastating secrets and destructive lies. Everything else paled in Becca’s wake. We just learned she had another child shortly after Shawn, a girl, I’m scared to meet her but I know we have to go along with the introduction. We were going through her things and found out. All I could do was sigh and make a call. I really hope she’s all right. I guess we’ll see soon enough.
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The Truth 6 years 2 months ago #2369

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Damn guys! I don’t know what to say. I just hope you two can get some peace now for real.

I’ve been the victim of many secrets and they were always a bad thing for me. things were kept from me that could have better my life when I was young. I lived a life I didn’t have to live if not for the secrets and the lies. I know how harmful secrets can be first hand and they always lead to lies and more secrets to cover up the shit that’s been lied about and kept secret. It’s a vicious circle. Just like Mason say’s, a web that tangles and binds even the innocent. I don’t keep secrets. It just doesn’t pay in the end. I agree, secrets are the roots of all lies.
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The Truth 6 years 2 months ago #2370

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I had a feeling Jim. Let me know how it turns out.
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The Truth 6 years 2 months ago #2371

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So, she had another kid dad? You’re going to meet her?
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The Truth 6 years 2 months ago #2372

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I too know this from both angles. I have been lied on and I have lied on. Both ways were very destructive and cost all involved quite a bit. That’s why I could not live that way anymore. I had to make it right with my husband and I’ve never been happier. I just thank God he forgave me and gave me another chance. But, I know this is a horrible thing and it really does hurt those you care about the most. It also hurts the innocent and that’s the most tragic of it all. I have made a vow to live a life free of lies and secrets and I will not be breaking that vow.
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The Truth 6 years 2 months ago #2373

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Well allow me to say that it’s good to hear that it’s not just men doing all this scandals shit. You know they stopped doing the blood test as science projects because it was coming out that daddy wasn’t really daddy. It happened to a friend of mine and it really messed him up. It was sad because he dad left and didn’t want anything to do with him or his mother. That was wrong because he was innocent. Of course, his real dad didn’t want any part of it either so he was hurt the most by his mother’s secrets and lies? It was tragic because they soon had to move out of their nice home into a smaller home in a poor neighborhood. He went off track and remains off track to this day. He introduced me to drugs. I allowed him to drag me down with him. Nothing in my life was that bad that I started doing the things I did. He had a reason. I didn’t really. My dad always loved me. I was loved of that there is no doubt. Mom is crazy but my dad is more than sane. I witnessed my mother’s treachery though and it pained me as you all know. But we have to move passed it and pick up the pieces. It’s not always easy and sometimes the road to recovery is a real bumpy ride. I’m just grateful I’ve arrived.
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