Well, I have to agree our grandparents, mainly our grandfather, drove a wedge between our parents and us simply because our father wouldn’t live his life the way my grandfather wanted him to. Thanks to Mark and Sir Paul, my father could not be the man my grandfather wanted him to be at that time. My grandfather has come to his senses and is working to repair the damage his contempt, also rooted in racism, caused. I’m glad I started to listen to my wife and my sister because this is what lead this broken family back together. It’s a hard, often long road to recovery but the sooner we start the sooner the healing begins. This the price of secrets that lead to devastating lies that destroy so many lives.