I am seeing first hand how damaging secrets and lies can really be. Benji and Debra we love you and we are here for you.
Becca kept secrets all the time. I always knew it was going to be ugly when we finally found out. Shawn was a secret until the day he arrived. She hid it so well. I didn’t even know she was sexually active. We later found out she was way more than sexually active and her partners included some of her male instructors. Yes, I said some not one. Every time we found out about something she kept closely guarded it rocked us to our core. The last thing was learning she had stabbed Justin and almost killed him. We are very happy to have Justin with us today. He almost didn’t make it. We didn’t know at the time it happened. We didn’t find out until Justin recovered and told us he was divorcing our daughter. I thought my heart was going to stop. It was the final straw for me, if most of you didn’t know that. Becca and I weren’t on speaking terms when she passed away. I don’t regret it. Karma is no joke and it finally caught up with her sad to say. I don’t like how she died, but I feel relief now, peace. I hope that’s not to harsh, I’m being honest.
or stop my eyes from popping out of my head! 
It’s going to be all right Deb. 
