There is nothing worse than a person who can’t control their damn self. Mom was like this, greedy, selfish, racist, and full of hate. She made selfish choices that were so destructive. Mom died selfish to the end thinking about herself. Not us, not feeling any remorse for the people she has hurt in life. The white privilege thing stays with some white people all they way up until they take their last breath. This is how it is for people who believe in something so strongly they lose all sense of reality thus all sense of self control.