I am a leader and I know that. I influence people and they look to me all the time. A good leader understands that he or she must be aware of how their behavior has consequences so we have to always be on our best behavior. I agree with this article and I’ll try to explain why we are so damn primitive. We are indigenous to Earth and all creatures on Earth have an animalistic quality. It is in our makeup. With that said, the Human male is the most animalistic in nature, which explains their ability to do things that are controlling or dominating even. The level in which the beast in man is unleashed depends on the level of self-control each male has. The ability to regulate self-control is based on several factors. Attention to the moral cord that binds us to the Most High is one factor. This will usually help maintain or tame the savage beast but when there is no deterrent laws are needed, which is another form of deterrent. That forever parent is necessary to insure the human male only goes so far.
This animalistic instinct is what makes us predator like, controlling, territorial, insensitive, without patience, superficial, you know…all the things women accuse us of being. I have to catch myself when I deal with my wife and kids. I have to watch what comes out of my mouth. You know…we just say what’s at the top of our mind and it never comes out right. I have to remind myself I love my wife and kids and I need to watch how I speak to them at all times. I have to refrain or control my strength. I can lift my wife over my head, that means she is small and delicate and I can’t just go tackle her to the ground. I can’t push her, I can’t smack her. I could kill her and that is not something any man should want to do to his wife. But that predatory instinct is wants responsible for men raping, forcing, and molesting people weaker. So, hell yes we are a young primitive species and hell yes we need forever parents. Evolving requires expanding the mind and of course you have some who want to hide under the umbrella of conservatism and religion to justify their unwillingness to grow and adapt. This type of stagnate thinking only prolongs our human ability to evolve into a more civilized species. I mean it’s not rocket science. Fella’s, admit it, don’t have moments when you have to catch yourself, refrain and restrain from going to far in anything? We all need to be tempered by that moral code that connects us to the Most High because let’s face it, there is only so far laws formed by members of the species who basically are equal to all members of the species, will only take any of us but so far.
