I tried to focus on the weddings this meeting and keep the newlywed couple’s spirits up. However, just hearing how high the popular vote for Hillary is makes me so uncomfortable because we have to admit our votes don’t matter. I have never been comfortable with the electoral college and this just made my discomfort more intense. I think we have to get rid of them. The reasons for keeping them do not hold water. Smaller states will have the same problem they do now. All the electoral college does is allow smaller states to have this special voice that is still over showed by the bigger states, it just doesn’t make sense. I’m very uncomfortable with Trump as president basically because of his disrespect of women, and his temperament. I am a white woman who did not vote for Trump and I’m ashamed of all the white women who did.