Debra I have told Michael I will be there for him as much as I can but as a couple that's not going to work. Michael, like most men, likes to dip their wick in various candles and I know many candles don't smell good. To be more frank, many women aren't sanitary. Men think it's normal for women to smell worse than something out of the sea. It's not normal, something is wrong with it if it smells bad. I invite you all to look up the Blue Waffle, it is a venereal disease and it's disgusting. I do not consider myself a lucky person. I don't gamble and I don't take risk. I don't care how good something looks, it doesn't mean it's good. Men don't feel that way, most of them anyway. I care about me and I'm clean and disease free. I'll stay that way. I'm already dealing with MS, I don't need any other health problems. It boils down to he's a hound and a gambler because he's always been lucky. He can be that way with his own person, not with mine. Men don't want loose woman and I don't want a loose man.