I’ve been racking my brain trying to decide how I want to interact in this thread. I’m grateful for so much. I think I’ll admit to being glad my mother is happy, she deserves it. I’m happy, and my life is exactly where I think it should be. I’m well rounded and grounded. Oh…I did bump into one of dad’s sisters a couple days ago. She was polite but it was so fake. I was polite as well, keeping it short and walking away before she could even bring dad up. I think me walking away with my family without introducing them, shocked her. I did say this is my husband, but I didn’t introduce her to Miles. I know they are racist and they will not subject my husband to any of their bullshit so I got away before she could say something offensive.