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TOPIC: Are we more Malevolent or Benevolent at heart?

Are we more Malevolent or Benevolent at heart? 5 years 10 months ago #2754

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Me too Mark. I don’t wish ill on anyone. I like being nice and making friends. But…I have had some girlfriends that have double crossed me, stabbed me in the back, and down right did me dirty. It really put dents in my sense of self-worth, that coupled with the life I had at home growing up.

I know how dangerous living with a psychotic man can be. I knew one growing up and I had a friend who lost her life dealing with a crazy man. I think some women really let a crazy man scare them into believe they can’t escape. My heart goes out to the babies and I really wish Nemesis would show up and give every abusive parent a taste of their own medicine. I wish she would be the sanctuary for children she is in UE.

I’m really disturbed by law enforcement in America today. I mean how do you know if you’re encountering a good officer or a bad officer? That is just not a position you want to wonder about when it comes to the character of the officer. I’m just glad I have met some really good men in law enforcement and I know I prefer to surround myself with benevolent people.
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Are we more Malevolent or Benevolent at heart? 5 years 10 months ago #2755

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OMG Mark really? I never see that side of you. Be yourself during the next meeting. I’d like to meet the real you.

I think I’m more benevolent simply because I don’t think in negative ways most of the time. I know first hand what it is like to have a family member who is malevolent, my mother is this way and that is how I know I am not. I’m my father’s daughter as she loves to tell me and I find myself often wondering about my kiddo’s. I don’t want then to be anything like my mother. I tell you what I’ve seen a really bad, mean kid. He lives on our block and frankly he scares me. according to the neighbors he’s been the neighborhood bully from the minute he could crawl. He’s parents clearly don’t have any control of the monster and Rocky had to tell him he had better not do anything to our house or any of our vehicles or our children or he would put his parents out of their misery. He never comes near our house.

I have had some pretty raunchy friend’s women can be treacherous. All in all, I attract the best kinds of people for the most part. Besides, I know now what kind of people to avoid just by paying a little more attention to them when they talk to me. That includes their body language. I prefer doing the right thing and I would appreciate only being bothered by like mind people.
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Are we more Malevolent or Benevolent at heart? 5 years 10 months ago #2756

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Yeah…I’ve seen it too but it’s not the kind of snobbish that my fraternal grandparents suffer from. Mark feels royal and I now think it’s because of his position here on Earth. When Mark talks people listen and he is a excellent speaker. He has all the qualities a leader should have and he carry’s himself so well. I love being around him, he makes me feel good.

I think I lean more toward benevolent. I mean to me malevolent means a person whose mind and thoughts stay on malicious behavior. I think we all can show a mean side but it doesn’t make any of us malevolent, not even Carmine LOL LOL. He’s a warrior reminding me of AJ in UE. Mason you have to tell us if we are right about the characters in UE. I have been involved with women who left me with much to be desired. That’s why they never were brought home to meet mom and dad.

I don’t like hearing I’m a little schizo but if the shoe fits right. I know it’s true because I’ve behaved in accordance with the situation and the person I become is not the person I am at heart. What I found absolutely riveting about this article was the reflection on how dangers home is for some people, particularly women and children. I think about Ashley and a chill runs down my spine. I have to agree, we do talk ourselves out of dealing what is right in front of us, especially when the heart is involved. I know because I’ve done this.

All in all I know I am a benevolent man 100% and I prefer to be in the company of benevolent people.
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Are we more Malevolent or Benevolent at heart? 5 years 10 months ago #2757

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Snob here! Hey…I read UE and damn…that’s me! LOL LOL. Guilty as charged.

My core self is actually a little of both. I do have vengeful thoughts from time to time that I have to fight to control. I am not typically a tolerant or nice person. I smile rarely and sometimes frown to much. I am a prude and a snob and I’m usually proud of who and what I am. Despite all of that, I love, care about, and cherish those near and dear to me. I develop attachments quick. I hate losing what I care for or about. I still struggle with the death of my father and sometimes lean on my sisters and brother for support and assistance coping however, there are times when we just cry together. That’s when I know I’m not the only one struggling with the loss.

I can’t stand it when weak people are victimized by the stronger, I hate it. It makes me defiantly insist on assisting the weak. I’m sick to death of cops killing black males, I’m sick of how badly women are often treated by men period, and I am really sick of grown ass people hurting little children. What kind of sick fuck! These people I imagine doing horrible things to and for that reason I do have a malevolent side. Prison is not good enough for me, I want torture, painful, agonizing, long lasting, torture!

Don’t call yourself a man if you beat on women and children You’re a weak asshole and that’s all. Shit I’m gay and I’m more of a man that a punk such as the likes of those who do these things. People say I’m mean, damn right that is my core self. I have no tolerance of nonsense.
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Are we more Malevolent or Benevolent at heart? 5 years 10 months ago #2758

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Hey, I’m a good guy, stop looking at my nose, it’s not growing before your eyes. Your eyes are lying again.

But for real…I don’t think I’m malevolent. I have some disconnection issues but I don’t sit back and contemplate doing horrible things to people like Luke :lol: :lol: :lol: . I’ll go along for the ride, I’ll even participate, but…it’s never my idea. I’m just the hit man, the enforcer. I’m a lovable guy folks. AJ…BEN!!! Okay I see that in me. :lol: .

I think I’m somewhere in between malevolent and benevolent. I take care of problems and I’m all right with that. No one should have to deal with a pain in the ass, no one. I’m with Luke, I wouldn’t have problem inflicting pain on a child abuser male or female. Like Mason says some behaviors strip away a person’s right to be classified as a human. Once I declassify a individual I would have no problem illuminating them. I mean if an individual wants to act inhumane than why not treat them accordingly. Being a human is a honor to do something as vile as beat a weaker member of the species is ground for declassification. I attract all kinds of people but I don’t retain relationships with everyone who talks to me. I prefer being around people who understand me, accept me, and can relate to me.
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Are we more Malevolent or Benevolent at heart? 5 years 10 months ago #2759

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I know I am a benevolent person. I have had a few friends who have been kind of out there but I backed away immediately. I have lived a sheltered life especially when I was young but as an adult I see people from all walks of life. I married a crazed woman who almost killed all of your children while I was at work. I was one of those people who had a feeling I was headed down a dark path but I told myself I was tripping again. I jumped in and immediately began to sink. I almost drowned and if not for my family I would have. I don’t think people really thing about things when they get involved in a intimate relationship. I just said she’s pretty, she has a daughter I have a son, let’s be a family. I was also rebounding.

I can’t imagine being related to a serial killer but I do know how hard it is on the families who are related to killers. I also know for a person, man or woman, to attack and beat on a person weaker than them is abominable. There is just something really weak and disgusting about such an individual. But I will agree, somewhere out there tonight a husband is about to snap, an officer is about to shoot a minority because of his deeply harbored aversion to a particular minority. A judge is about to sentence a woman or a minority to a stiffer sentence than he would a white male guilty of a similar crime. A republican is going to lie and tell us some bullshit while they stab us all in the back. This is the jungle, hell, and I’m just trying to survive.
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