Well, my daughter summed it up. My first wife was a mess and she messed us up for years. I’m glad we survived but not only was her shit lasting, and scaring, it continues. She also remarried, had a couple kids, and is divorced. It appears like me, she had an affair and this time it was with another family member. I honestly wish people like her could have some kind of sign posted on them that warns others she us damaged goods. But as it’s been stated, her shit wasn’t the first I dealt with that was deeply damaging. Pop was the first. I was totally shocked he was married to someone else, learning of it on his death bed. It made many things clear to me but I don’t speak much to my mother today who is still alive, because she is equally as guilty, and I will say in my first marriage I married a woman just like my mother. I did not make that mistake twice and need I say she does not approve of me or my brother’s current choices in wives. She says she does not want to see our children and I told her she need not worry about that every happening. In fact, she could feel free to continue going on as if she never had a son named Christopher. I am more than good with that. You, see that’s not the only lie mom has told, it’s not the only secret she kept from us. She’s a cheater and cheaters cheat. UE revealed one of the other secrets if you all caught it. We have a sister. She was put up for adoption, Michael found her years ago, and she was fine in the life she has with her adopted parents. We have nothing to do with her and I’m good with that as well.