Well for years bad messages have been sent out that influences how we behave and live our lives. We learn who to marry, why, and what is expect and allowed. Yeah the media plays the strongest role but church and people in positions of power do as well. I think anyone who uses their position and sends negative, dishonest messages are the worlds most disgraceful people period. I tell you what, when Ryan gets old he’ll wish he was remembered for doing something good for those who needed it most and he’ll have many restless nights as he is reminded of how much devastation he caused abusing his position of power and leadership.