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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1128

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Justin agrees Mark. He says a rich or wealthy man should not be president because Obama showed the world what a good president is like and a wealthy person wouldn’t be able to relate to all of the people the way Obama was able to. He understood them, cared for them, and did his best to keep us all safe. That’s a heave pill to swallow and wealthy people just don’t know much about those types of sacrifices. I know I’m one of the less fortunate who was picked up but I have not forgotten where I came from. I can’t. But I think my husband is a good boss and I think you are a fantastic leader.

I also can’t believe that we are now seeing how altered our realties have been for such a long time. That demon stood there and said alternative facts. Really, and of course that’s what they are. It’s what we have been getting forever now. Now I understand why I always struggled with the Christian religion.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1129

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Wow, nonverbal communications. Well okay then. I can think of several people I know and most of them are women. It really shows with them. I admit many men take advantage of it. Some women think there is something wrong with them if they are single and it’s not. Men are looking for someone they can conquer quickly. It’s insecurity in us. We want a sure thing and if she’s pretty that’s a bonus. Very few men want a woman they can look at and see inner strength. Only if they are secure about who they are. Do women see how insecure men are the way we see it in them?

All I know Mark is that you are a blessing in my life. You gave me a chance at life and I live better than I dreamed I would live. I get so emotional when I think about how I came to be where I am. I think about my sister telling me she found a cool website and the people were really special. I’m so glad I listened to here and came in for myself. I then met Mark and it’s been uphill from there. Mary is the best thing that ever happened to me. We have adopted a set of twins. They are three, biracial, boys, I’m so happy to be a new dad. I also had a son I didn’t know about until a few years ago so we have a nice family here and I’m happy I hope Mary is. I think she is. She looks happy.

I don’t know about most wealthy people but the ones I know personally are as good as gold and I think God for them because the changed my life.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1130

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The wealthy good leader thing, I have to agree. For the longest time...like Justin, I didn’t give poor people a second thought. Literally…I didn’t think about it. Mike met Mason and I was like dude…what is your problem? Then pop met her and he was like she’s cool. I was like dude…what is your problem? She’s black, a single mother with four kids, just not on our level at all. I’m just being honest. I was nice to her but Mason know I didn’t agree with my brother seeing her. She was cool though she didn’t seem nervous or anything.

Then we met Sir Paul and everything changed. Sir Paul didn’t care for Italians so we got our first taste of our own medicine and we were reminded we aren’t really white. I was like Bro…you might be all right after all. Then pop died and Mason and her family were so very supportive of our family and mom. It impressed MG and she came to the US to meet them. She looked at me and said …ragazzo sciocco…qual è il tuo problema. Anyway…I’m glad someone opened the door for us to come down from the hills and visit the people in the village. It allowed me to meet my second half, something I had given up hope of ever doing.

Mark…you are a good leader because you step out of your comfort zone and helped many of us step out of our. Then I met my wife and I was like....idiot what was your problem. Anyway, I’m glad someone opened the door for us to, come down from the hills out into the village so we could see how bad it is for ourselves. I was as shocked as Justin. The people looked at us stangely, they knew we didn’t belong there. Justin was so disturbed some teenage young men stopped to ask him if he was all right. One of them asked him if someone had done something to him. Justin couldn’t speak and tears rolled from his eyes. He held out his hand toward the youth and the youngster took Justin’s shaking hand and smiled. He told Justin everything was going to be all right. I though, this kid has hope living where he lived. All I could do was rub Justin’s back and try to comfort my wife. He finally told the youth he had never seen how they live and he apologized. It made them emotional too and they actually embraced Justin and told him not to worry it was all right.

I looked at Mark and that was my strength. I pointed at him and Justin looked at him as well and he took a deep breath. Mark said that was why they were there and Justin nodded. One of the mother’s came out and asked if her son had done something he had no business and Mark told her no. He told her he was a well behaved young man. They knew...they knew we were wealthy and we were reminded we arrived two limos. Mark and Justin don’t drive anywhere.

She asked us why we were there and Mark told her...to help. I was paralized at that point. Mark reached for his tearful wife’s hand and approached the mother, as a few other adults came out. One of the males had a bit of an attitude and one of the females told him to be quiet. She told him some whitefolks was down there actually looking at how they live and he was trying to talk shit to us. Mark just smiled and nodded. He told him he had a right to be angry and we represented who he had a right to be angry with.

The man said he had a daughter that wanted to go to a better school and Mark asked him what school. He told Mark what school and Mark told him he would make sure she went to that school starting immediately. He asked Mark how was he supposed to get her there and Mike asked him was he prepared to move. He didn’t know what to say. He looked at his wife who tearfully nodded and sad hell yes. Niobi told her they would move as soon as a suitable home was found.

This man worked hard and couldn’t do better for his family than he was doing and Mark knew it. He told him it was over. His ship had finally come in and the man nodded. Mark told him he didn’t want to hear about how would he afford it, all he wanted him to do was pack up his family and get ready to go. Mike and I agreed to get them all new furniture, and Justin told him he would get them a new car.

We took care of four families that day and it didn't put a dent in what we have. It’s that easy to help change someone’s life. They knew what we stood for and we knew who we could help. Who we were there to help. It was a feeling...Mark told us to pay close attention to those type feelings. They are all doing good to this day and it is so fulfilling to do things like that. We do other things but that was the first time for me to actually see a ghetto and it’s pretty bad. I was reminded that Virgil in UE went into these areas and transformed them and we are trying to get things like that started. Ghettos need to be really taken care of and not just to give to white people.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1131

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Baby I am happy trust me. I love you so much and you made this broken woman whole. I love our little ones and I feel like I finally have a chance to be a happy mother instead of a stressed out scared mother.

This nonverbal commutation is so interesting. I’m going to start paying closer attention to what is going on because I have to admit I haven’t in the past. I’ve just gotten lucky, especially with Benji.

I think Mark is a fantastic leader so I just can’t agree that wealthy people don’t make good leaders. I think it's more complex than that. All I know is I am proud of the men with money in our group, proud of what they are doing. I want to look as good as they do in the sight of the Lord. That is what I strive to be because it’s important to me. I have seen both sides of the track and I tend to agree that leadership is only for a few no matter what you economic status. Let us all remember that it is better to give than to receive. And it feels good too.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1132

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I definitely know about nonverbal messages. Like pop it’s a part of my profession. I just hate to get mixed signals from people especially when it comes to relationships. I think insecure people also send mixed messages when they lack confidence. I personally think trump doesn’t have as much self confidence as he likes to let on. He’s to whiny. I would say he is definitely a person with no self-confidence. I think a person that struggles with how they feel about themselves is worse to lead than a rich or wealthy person. To me it is these kinds of people who have a need to surround themselves with Alternative facts about what the world is truly like. They have to create realities that don’t exists so they feel better about who they are and the world they live in. This is the problem with racist, sexist people. Oppressors are unhappy inside themselves and they have to spread it. To me truly happy people like giving and doing for others, making a difference in people’s lives not creating mass protest like trump and the republican party create. They are racist because they are insecure even though they do have money.

All I know is I don’t want to have anything to do with a party or group that is comfortable oppressing and being unjust to any group of people for any reason because I care what the Most High sees when the whole body of God looks down on us.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1133

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I learned about nonverbal communication in college. I try to apply it but like Marc says, sometimes people are good at sending mixed messages. I was certain I was making the right decision with my first wife and that was a complete joke. I think often times we see and hear what we want to see and hear. Mark I think a strong emphasis should be put on Pay Attention to the messages we send and receive from people. We need to stop having selective views. I mean think with their little head to often and end up with the wrong woman and women are often times trying to escape one level of hell while walking right into another. I think trump supporters know he’s a liar but he says what they want to hear. Yeah they are more comfortable with Alternative facts because they comfort them and validate their hateful views. Unfortunately many religious views are hateful as well and I absolutely agree bad people like to put on robes and pretend they actually love and care about the Most High or any of the things True God stands for.

Mark I think a lot of wealthy people have a tyranny disposition and tyranny never stands for long. Trump is about to start a revolution in the US I can see that coming.

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