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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1140

Barb
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So, people communicate often before they speak. I like the attributes of a true leader, a humanitarian leader anyway. Mark do you feel you don’t have these qualities? I have to agree with the introvert topic in the article. Doug is an introvert but he does not lack self-esteem or charisma. I think Mason is an introvert as well but she is very friendly and a good speaker when she has to be. She’s also funny

She talks when she's drawn into a conversation. However, she’s not easily drawn in, especially these days. How are you doing Mason?

I think it’s clear some wealthy people should not be in leadership positions but I think the comment about the types of people period that shouldn’t be in leadership is what matters. Isn’t it scary to think mentally ill people are in leadership positions? I think trump is mentally ill. He just doesn't behave like a sane person most of the time and he’s not alone. I think a lot of members in congress might be a little insane. I think this is what happens to anyone who harbors hate for a long period of time. Mark thank to you we learn and are guided. Do you not see that you guide us in the right direction? I really hope you do.

Karen...Aaron is coming around. He had a spat with on of the members about the trump thing and finally saw ho unwavering they are and how individual opinions are not ever welcomed. He also has an attraction to a woman from the Dominican Republic and his grandfather is not very encouraging. Aaron does talk to me and wants to talk to his father. He's getting there. I think most of all he wants to be free and he's realizing life in his grandfather's circle is real confining. Rod...your son wants to talk to you.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1141

Jimmy

Nonverbal communication is very useful when one puts it into action. As a judge I am also trained to rely on this form of communication quite a bit. Folks wonder why judges have a superior aura. It’s because we deal with some of the worse people in existence and we learn to put on armor as we sit in a judge seat. I don’t think only women have the soulless eyes. Loreen, I’ve seen plenty of men with lifeless eyes. They are the rapist, the child abusers, the domestic abusers, the murders. Not the thieves, thieves, robbers, or those who abuse drugs. But the pimps and drug pushers legal and none legal all have soulless eyes. All those driven by money are soulless and it shows in their eyes first. Rod, you were uncomfortable in a den of demons. I hope your sons come out of it because their parents are beautiful people with good hearts and warm souls. The conversation of soulless people is always frivolous useless, empty. This is why you all are uncomfortable, Jordan, Mark, and you to Rod. Soulless people are often overly sarcastic and well versed in public etiquette. When you use nonverbal communication or pay attention to it you cannot only see low self-esteem in people, you can also see bullshit.

As instruments of God, True God, we have to make sure we do and say the right things and that’s not always easy. I agree that there are some wealthy people who should not ever lead but I must say I know a few that would make good leaders, even of a country.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1142

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I spent four years in college and I didn’t learn about nonverbal communication. I learn more from this Gnostic Group than I have learned anywhere else. I’ll be putting this nonverbal communication thing to work more going forward.

I’m not rich or wealthy. I’m one of those poverty people. I mean I grew up real poor. My life is a real Cinderella story like my mother likes to tell me all the time. She loves Rod too. All of it has made my siblings and parents decide to join the group and worship with us.

I know I’ve known many people that have no business in any type of leadership position not team leader, supervisor, manager, and anything else and none of them are rich or wealthy. I have to stay in my lane so I don’t know about wealthy or rich people but I do know about poor and people living in poverty. I like how Mark knows how to pick who they will help because it’s not easy picking people to help. They do a good job and I’m just glad I came to this group looking for something more because I simply was not getting much from the churches I was going to. When I joined this group I was immediately blessed.

My self-esteem has gone through its ups and down. I’ve seen a lot in my life. I experienced a lot and I’m real glad to be married to a psychologist. Rod understands things I don’t understand and I love talking to him and getting a better perspective on things. I know about having esteem issues and about being very poor. Rod knows about being the total opposite and I’m learning. I still stop him from throwing food away, and from doing stuff I grew up being told was wasteful. He just laughs

We brought a new house and I just shook my head when I saw how much it cost. He put my name on it and all I could do was cry. I know his family doesn’t like me and he says it’s all right he doesn’t like them.

His children like me and I like them. Barb likes me, and I like her and Doug

My family loves Rod and those in his family he enjoy being around us. Mom likes cooking and watching Rod’s face when he tastes it. She just keeps feeding him. His little stomach just starting to poke out. (Laugh) Mark takes him right to the gym and tells him he understand. They so silly.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1143

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I find the nonverbal communication very interesting and I can remember using it often. I always knew when to stay away from my father and my uncle. I also know when my wife isn’t feeling well even though she’ll deny it. I know when she’s pregnant before she does. He body speaks to me loud and clear.

I’m glad to know I’m not just imagining it.

All I know is Mark saved my life. I live very well now, upper middle class and I am in management. I try to be a good leader and I treat everyone with respect and kindness but I have learned to be firm when I need to be. Mark says I’m a natural. He really boosts my ego

. My health is improving and my life is wonderful and I want to keep living my life in a way that positively represents the Most High because My God has been real good to me.

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1144

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I had a feeling this was a form of communicating. I’ve always paid attention to it so that’s good thing. I know more poor or average bad leader than rich and/or wealthy and the only wealthy leaders I know are you Mark, Justin, JR, Luke, and Nick. Um Doc Jess is well off too and oh you to Rod. All of you fellas are good guys so I’d have to say I don’t think rich and /or wealthy people can’t be good leaders. I know woman think they have cornered the market on having low self-esteem but men are often insecure as well it just shows itself in different ways. They become aggressive, violent, and/or sexually deviant. If you noticed serial killers are always experiencing some form of esteem problems. The thing with women is weak men can spot an even weaker person and they prey on them. A man attracted to a woman with low self –esteem has low esteem himself, right Docs?

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What You See 7 years 2 months ago #1145

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I read this article to edit it and it actually made me cry. I thought about my husband when I read the qualities that make a good leader. That’s my husband. I keep trying to see why Rocky thinks he is slow. I don’t ever see that. I love him and I’m glad I heard his body language and he heard mine and still does.

I think Mark is a fantastic leader and really want to hear what happened that turned him around. He’s s stubborn

I mean that in a positive way your grace. I can see the eyebrow now.

He’s so funny and good looking. Doesn’t he look like he could be royal? A real King? I’m serious. Maybe it’s his attitude but Sir Paul had the same look and Luke Wow. He’s quiet but you always know he’s there. He’s so strong. I know Jordan knows and sees he’s soft side but no one else does trust me. Mason, you are fantastic. Your father did very good.

I will continue to follow the lead of our leader’s because I know they are pleasing to the Most High and all of us. I love you all and thank you for everything.

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