We were a part of a club and we came together just to hang out but it’s like you say Mark, once the activities cease to be enjoyable it’s time to back up so that’s what I did, following Mark’s lead. I remember going to church and will admit this was the only type of gathering I considered to be a fellowship, and I hated them. I didn’t consider fellowship and enjoy in the same categories. In fact they were the opposite so I’m glad to know it is supposed to be something that is enjoyed because I really enjoy fellowshipping with our Gnostic group.