Mine was my divorce from my first wife as well. For all the mentioned reason, being a catholic, this was unacceptable. But she was a Bitch from Hell and I couldn’t stay with her another minute. I also refused to leave our children with her. Her family hates me and they always have. The church was upset with me, and all the church members. But, I clearly didn’t belong there anyway but it was the most stressful time of my life. I’m glad I stood up to all of them and followed my heart or I wouldn’t be in a much better place today.