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TOPIC: October Article "Choices"

October Article "Choices" 2 years 6 months ago #6476

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I decided to divorce my first wife because she had a drinking problem and she was abusive to the kids. I couldn’t leave them with her and go to work. Everyone felt I was obligated to stand by her because she was struggling with some things but my heart said, not at the expense of the kids. I heard it all. I couldn’t be a single father, the kids needed their mother, it was like they didn’t her that she was hurting them. CPS was called out and that was the final straw. Her abuse was something she could control but she wanted to blame her drinking problem for everything. I felt if I stayed with her she would kill my children while I was at work. So I took my children, left her with the house and everything in it. And we went to my suite. I hired a nanny and started the divorce against the better judgment of everyone I knew. I had to follow my heart and do what was best and safe for my kiddos.
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October Article "Choices" 2 years 6 months ago #6477

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I was in a long-term relationship with a woman and she became pregnant. Something about her gave me a feeling she was not going to be a good mother and I had to accept the fact that I wasn’t really in love with her and didn’t want to father children with her. She didn’t want an abortion so I took her on a vacation and slipped her a pill. Everyone I told beforehand advised me not to do it, convinced I would regret it. My family in America didn’t even believe it would work because over her an abortion is done in a clinic, well in some countries they just take a pill to end the pregnancy. It worked, she thought she had a miscarriage, and I was able to breathe a sigh of relief. I never told her what I did and I don’t know if she knows now but I have no damn regrets.
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October Article "Choices" 2 years 6 months ago #6478

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I have one of those situations where I did something against everyone’s better judgment and they were right. I married Bridgett. That was the worst three years of my life. The only good thing that came out of that marriage was our daughter Sorena but I had three children that were being negatively impacted by Bridgett’s depression and struggle with being Bi-polar. When she completely destroyed our home and caused an injury to our son Gavin and our daughter Destiny I knew it was time to make a move. With help from my wonderful parent’s, I was able to get my family to safety and start to repair our lives. It was the hardest but best decision I’ve ever made.
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October Article "Choices" 2 years 6 months ago #6479

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I was supposed to be a doctor, that’s how I meet Jordan, I had a situation that made me switch course. I realized I would be of better use helping people with their legal issues. I thought dad was going to pass out when I told him. He told me he didn’t understand my choice after he took a few moments to get his bearings. Mom was screaming out of her minds. Dad cleared his throat and we all knew what that meant. I stood in front of his desk with my head down trying to mentally deal with the sting of mom’s words. Mark was rubbing my back. Finally, dad told me to look at him. I took a deep breath and look at dad. He asked me if I had thought my decision through and nodded. He sighed and smiled at me and I couldn’t hold back tears. He told me it takes a man to know what he is called to do in life. He stood up, came and stood in front of me, smiled at me and wiped away my tears. He said if I was sure, and he said I again and I tearfully nodded so he nodded as well and told me he was all right with my decision because it was my decision to make. I cried and he asked me why I was crying. I could hear our mother behind us still making comments and now she was yelling at Dad. I told him I loved him and he smiled at me, hugged me, and told me he loved me too. I had my father’s blessing and I never needed it more than I did at that moment. He then called Ray into his office, a SS officer, and told him to remove our mother from his office and if she continued yelling to arrest her. Ray was trying not to laugh because no one liked the way she was talking to me and dad. I told my dad I loved him so much.
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October Article "Choices" 2 years 6 months ago #6480

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I decided to go into the casino business which was a decision that met with a tremendous amount of resistance. It is a resistance that can knock you back for a moment. Sometimes it gets emotionally charged and people were yelling at me and literally taking my decision personally. At the end of the day I followed my heart and it was one of the best things I’ve ever done. I would always say follow your heart no matter other people think.
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October Article "Choices" 2 years 6 months ago #6481

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Our father was FUCKING AWESOME!!!!
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